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What Happens If Your Spouse Remarries after You Are Gone?

January 17, 2019Estate Planning

Nashua estate planning attorneys

If you are married, an important focus of your estate plan is likely dedicated to ensuring that your spouse is financially protected in the event of your death. If you have children together, you likely plan for your combined estate assets to be passed down to your children after you are both gone. What happens, however, if you die at a relatively young age and your spouse remarries? Specifically, what happens to the assets you left your spouse if he/she remarries? Will your children still get those assets eventually? How can you be sure? The Nashua estate planning attorneys at DeBruyckere Law Offices discuss what happens if your spouse remarries after you are gone.

Reciprocal Estate Planning

Many couples choose to create reciprocal estate plans which means their plans mirror one another. If you die first, all your assets go to your spouse and vice versa. When the surviving spouse dies, those combined assets are then passed down to the children. Traditional reciprocal estate planning, however, only works when neither spouse has children from a previous relationship and the surviving spouse does not remarry after the death of the first spouse.

Have You Discussed Remarriage with Your Spouse?

It is not an easy discussion to have, but then many estate planning topics are not particularly comfortable topics of conversation. Nevertheless, if you have yet to discuss the possibility of remarriage with your spouse, it is wise to do so. Some people are adamant that they want their spouse to find love again while others would consider it a betrayal of the relationship they had. Not only is it important to know how your spouse looks at the possibility of remarriage from an emotional standpoint, but it is also critical from an estate planning standpoint if for no other reasons than that that reciprocal estate plan you created won’t work as intended if a surviving spouse remarries.

How Does Remarriage Impact Assets?

Under the terms of a traditional reciprocal estate plan, all of your assets will be gifted to your spouse upon your death. If your spouse remarries, those assets become marital property in the absence of legal precautions preventing that from happening. Once those assets become marital property, they also become subject to division in a divorce. The new spouse also becomes a legal heir of your spouse’s estate, meaning that the new spouse could inherit your assets when your spouse dies if your spouse dies intestate (without an estate plan in place). While it is true that at this point you are gone and won’t personally be affected, your children certainly will!  Moreover, if your spouse now lives in a state that allows a surviving spouse to take against the Will, the new husband or wife could have a claim to your assets even if your spouse honors his/her agreement and gifts them to your children in a Last Will and Testament. Hopefully, the need to discuss the possibility of remarriage is becoming more and more clear at this point.

Preventing the Loss of Assets with a Family Wealth Trust

Just as your estate plan protects against all other sorts of potential threats to your assets, a well thought out estate plan can also protect your assets in the event of your spouse’s remarriage. Specifically, a Family Wealth Trust (FWT) may be the answer. An FWT is a type of asset protection trust that can protect your assets while still providing for a spouse and/or children. Your FWT can stand alone or as a sub-trust within a larger trust. Your children are designated as the beneficiaries of the trust.  Your spouse can be named as the Trustee of this trust, or you can appoint a close friend or professional Trustee. Your spouse can use or benefit from the property held in trust, but he/she does not own those assets.  Ownership in the property in the Trust is reserved for your children. Most importantly, once assets are transferred into the trust they become trust property, meaning they cannot be included in the division of assets in a divorce nor does a new spouse have a claim to the assets in the event of the death of your spouse.

Contact Nashua Estate Planning Attorneys

For more information, please download our FREE estate planning worksheet. If you have additional questions about a Family Wealth Trust, or other estate planning questions, contact the Nashua estate planning lawyers at DeBruyckere Law Offices by calling (603) 894-4141 or (978) 969-0331 to schedule an appointment.

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Attorney Daniel A. DeBruyckere has been practicing law in New Hampshire and Massachusetts since 1998, and has helped hundreds of clients with their estate planning and elder care issues. He is very well respected in the area of estate planning, probate, trust administration, elder law issues, and business planning.
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